InTensions™ are impossible binds where both poles are necessary but mutually exclusive. When people experience these, standard interventions often fail because the problem isn’t lack of knowledge, insight, or motivation – it’s being caught in a psychological architecture where both staying and leaving, both persisting and stopping, both knowing and can feel impossible at the...Read More
Most capable people have learned that persistence is a strength. You stayed with hard things. You didn’t quit at the first sign of difficulty. You pushed through uncertainty before and it worked. Often, that capacity is part of how you became competent, reliable, or successful in the first place. So when something important feels stalled,...Read More
Many people I work with know exactly what their next step should be. They can describe it clearly. They’ve thought it through. They may even have done similar things successfully in the past. And yet, starting feels strangely difficult, and they resist. This moment is often misdiagnosed as procrastination, a lack of motivation, or avoidance....Read More
